Thursday, September 11, 2008

More Ranting

I must just be having a bad day. I am frustrated. Why is it when you have a baby, ok three, that you no longer have friends? Ok that may be extreme but I swear since we have had the babies we no longer hear from friends that we were close with, we no longer get asked to help plan parties or activities, we dont get visitors as much as we used, we have not had much family visit, etc. Did we fall off the face of the earth? There are friends that have not even called since the babies were born, let alone seen them. I am expecting too much? Do we talk about the babies too much and thats why no one wants to call us? Granted we still have a few friends that keep in touch and I am sure people are thinking they dont want to bother us but I have babies, not a contagious disease. It is hard to get out with the babies, but that doesnt mean I cant talk on the phone. Thankfully I am allowed to help make the favors for Racheals wedding, which makes happy to contribute a little. I cant help but have my feelings hurt. Like I said, I think I am just having a bad day. =(

5 comments:

Grandma and Poppa,s said...

Hi again, We seem to be on line at the same time. My heart goes out to you, Every ounce of me wishes I could be there with you. Do you talk about your babies to much, NO. They are your Pride and Joy and how often do people get to see triplets. " Its Awesome". I am trying to get back up there, I will call you on the phone just as soon as I know whats going on with David. I know you are in need of rest and that may be contributing to a bad day. But, Duh, you have every right in the world to have a bad day. You are raising triblets. I hope your friends and family start calling or visiting again. I am sure they will. Prayers Mom

Kristen said...

hunny,
I would be happy to visit again soon but dang, gas is expensive. Beef party is this weekend and we already have a house full. I will give you a call next week.
love you,
Kristen

-smile... oh, and get a nap when you can. Those always help.

Shelby said...

Honey,
I am rushing right over with Starbucks and a manicure set...

Grandma and Poppa,s said...

Mary, I know this is yesterdays post and I hope you are haveing a better day. I wanted to be the first to wish you a "Happy Birthday" My baby girl is a Mom now. "Triblets" at that. I wish I could of been there today to give you a well deserved day of r&r and I know that,if, Lainey, Nickolas, and Gabriel, were a little bigger, that they would be serving you breakfast in bed and all the other little treats that come with motherhood. What fun to come. I love you and am so proud to have such a wonderful daughter. May "your" day be filled with many fond memories. As I,m sure it will. Happy Birthday Honey, Love and Prayers Mom

Nichelle said...

Mary,
I hear ya!! I have the same problem over hear! To bad us triplet moms don't live close and we could visit, take walks go to the mall etc, gosh what fun it would be!!
Take care, keep posting that keeps me busy....
Nichelle (BC)