More Ranting

I must just be having a bad day. I am frustrated. Why is it when you have a baby, ok three, that you no longer have friends? Ok that may be extreme but I swear since we have had the babies we no longer hear from friends that we were close with, we no longer get asked to help plan parties or activities, we dont get visitors as much as we used, we have not had much family visit, etc. Did we fall off the face of the earth? There are friends that have not even called since the babies were born, let alone seen them. I am expecting too much? Do we talk about the babies too much and thats why no one wants to call us? Granted we still have a few friends that keep in touch and I am sure people are thinking they dont want to bother us but I have babies, not a contagious disease. It is hard to get out with the babies, but that doesnt mean I cant talk on the phone. Thankfully I am allowed to help make the favors for Racheals wedding, which makes happy to contribute a little. I cant help but have my feelings hurt. Like I said, I think I am just having a bad day. =(